Ethos

The Ethos of Faith and Young People Events

We strive to be peacemakers

Jesus said "Blessed are the Peacemakers" (Matthew 5:9). The Faith and Young People Events are rooted in a belief that we should be peacemakers, not just peace supporters. So the events are run to help build small steps of peace between the two faith communities.

We don't slag off the other religion

When people start a conversation by saying "Let me tell you what's wrong with your religion", it usually ends up with people feeling defensive and hurt. So at Faith and Young People Events we help the young people to start by saying what's great about their faith, and then listening whilst the others tell of the good things from their faith. We start the process by focussing on the positive; helping the young people feel good about themselves and to see the positive in what they believe and have to bring to the discussions.

We affirm similarities and differences between the faiths

Let me make this clear. CHRISTIANS AND MUSLIMS ARE NOT THE SAME. Trying to just find common ground and ignoring difference will always leave big gaps in the conversations. We explore similarities but we also name and recognise differences.

We express difference peacefully

Building peace between faiths is not about ignoring difference. Neither is it about trying to find words that make the differences seem to disappear. Building peace means learning to discuss fundamental differences peacefully. Yes we disagree about whether Jesus was the Son of God, but we can still enjoy a meal together surely?

We work with the young people as they are not as we would like them to be

Many of the young people who come are passionate about their faith, and firmly believe the others would be far better off if only they all converted. We don't make them change those beliefs before they come, we help them see how they can have those beliefs and still become friends with and make peace with the people from the other faith.

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Lads preparing to go canoeing

We do youth work with two faiths together. We don't do formal dialogue meetings with young people in the room

Why are so many dialogue events so boring and really monologues in disguise? Since when did two people on a stage giving talks to a room full of quiet, polite people count as dialogue? At Faith and Young People events we try to learn from good youth work practice and incorporate it into our events. Consequently the events are very interactive with teamwork games, discussions, presentations, 10 pin bowling etc.

We're into Encounter before dialogue

Getting to know someone else doesn't just involve talking. It might involve working together on a project, eating a meal or just sitting in silence together. We help people encounter each other as people not as theological oddities or competitors.

We give the young people a voice

When adults ask young people to give their opinions, lots of adults can't resist correcting things, or adding their opinion. At Faith and Young People we want to hear what the young people have to say - and hear it from them in their language. This might not always make for comfortable listening. But it's always interesting.